104 Days - Destination Wedding Journal - Black Destination Bride


Day 104

Sunday, February 12, 2017

Temperature: High 57ยฐ / Low 38ยฐ


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

Today I got in touch with my feelings and I was able to connect with some of my Bridefriends too! I love it when that happens, but it makes me excited about getting them all together for my Bachelorette party!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I was tired all day, but no bad pain. I'll say that I teetered between a 2.5 and 3 today.


Workout Time & Duration?

Ummmm no

Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

Che has been gettin down in DestiLand today!
Me? Well not so much...but I'm a lucky girl and I have a partner in this, so I can be raggedy here and there...but for real - he was on it today! He reached out to schedule a call with the DJ, reached out to our travel agent Sarah to get our final room balance and reached out to our planner Joyce to follow up on the restaurant that we wanted her to visit to see if it is a good fit for our night before the wedding dinner. He was on it today!

Shout out to my future husband!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

This morning, I got all into my feelings and lost it a little ( okay, okay...ALOT) with the wedding and Che had to pull me back together and first let me know that we need to work on some damage control exercises to make sure that I don't continue to get stressed out now OR on the wedding weekend. Then, he reassured me that we were going to have a great time and that everything would be okay. And to seal the deal, he changed the subject to something lighter and more pleasant. The funny thing is...I don't even remember what that pleasant thing was, but it worked at the time.

What am I happy for?

Sooo...I brought Che home a slice of his favorite chocolate cake. I'm happy because it is normally a ginormous slice and I have to watch him eat it for several days...but today, the cake was a regular size and that means I only have to watch him tonight...and maybe tomorrow too! Yes, I'm a hater. But a happy hater.


What could I have done better?

Well, I could have started by NOT lost my shit this morning. If this is Day 104 and I'm reacting like that...this may be a warning shot.

Man, I gotta do better!


What am I doing tomorrow?

Making it better than today, and keeping my shit together.