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Day 118

Sunday, January 29, 2017

Temperature: High 35° / Low 30°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

What is the best way to spend a Sunday? Have a relaxing yet still productive day where you squeeze in as much Quality Time as possible.

Done! And Done!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I was so relaxed that I almost forgot I had Lupus


I forgot to take my damn meds this morning and didn’t remember until this afternoon when the achiness started to show its ugly head. It wasn’t a big deal, but I had to giggle to myself because I am funny for that one. Anyway, it didn’t get out of hand and no one died, so I’m fine. And I’d put my pain at about a 3...at the worst point it was at a 6, but that didn’t last long so I’ll give it an overall 3.  


Workout Time & Duration?

...Just no.


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

Well, we did have to leave the house in the afternoon for a few hours, and while we rode around the city, Che let me listen to our cocktail hour and dinner music playlists that he is carefully curating.

They are perfect in my eyes...or should I say to my ears?

Anyway, they're perfect.  Up until this point, I’ve only been able to listen to the reception playlist and I didn’t handle that one too well. I handled myself very well this time if I can say so...and I can...so I will.

Good job Omi!


Also, while at the liquor store I remembered that we need to talk to our planner Joyce about our wedding guest book alternative idea...people signing a big bottle of our favorite champagne...we gotta figure out how we can make that happen. I'm hoping customs doesn't make it impossible. Difficult we can do...just not impossible!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

I can’t remember the last time we spent this much time in the bed together. Che got out of the bed to walk Sparky and had an amazingly perfect idea: staying in the bed until it was time to pick up our groceries this afternoon! This was the best idea he’s had in a long time...like up there with let’s move in together...yeah, like that!

What am I happy for?

I’m happy for a fiance that is as involved in the wedding planning as Che is. I would have no idea what to do about the music, so he is oh-so-needed right now.


What could I have done better?

I could have at least went downstairs to get in my 30 minutes of cardio that I told myself I was going to do...oh well, I’m in the gym tomorrow!

Annnd, I probably shouldn't be forgetting to take my meds either. Just sayin'...


What am I doing tomorrow?

Gym, work, and meal prep for the week!

I also need to check in on my wedding planning to-do list to see what needs to be done this week...Because I really don’t even know!

Joyce said we were doing good on time and I am feelin’ good right now, but there it definitely plenty of shit to do.