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Day 39

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Temperature: High 73° / Low 48°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

Today was a nice day. I’m trying to take it easy so that I can use my energy for this weekend.


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I’m feeling great and need it to keep rolling like this...today pain was at about a 2.

Workout Time & Duration?

30 minutes of cardio and 15 minutes of core was all that I could squeeze in today.


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

I arranged for the updated guest count and printed off our contract for the welcome cocktail hour space (well, I sent it to Che to print, so that counts); and we got confirmation from the transportation that our updated timeline is accepted.

Whoop! Whoop!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

Lately, our evenings have consisted of wedding planning discussions, and tonight we took a little break and just watched TV and enjoyed each other. It was great to just BE for a night. I love my relationship. 

What am I happy for?

I’m happy that I have good girlfriends. I’m in a place in my life where I can identify, appreciate and cultivate good friendships and I’m happy about it. Today one of my girlfriends told me that today it was okay for me to worry about others, but from tomorrow on, I need to worry about myself and my future husband...who says that?
That’s friendship.

What could I have done better?

I said that my 45-minute workout was all that I could squeeze in, but that’s bullshit and I know it. I could have done more. I was beasting in the gym months ago and lately, I’ve been kinda lax.


What am I doing tomorrow?

Hitting the gym hard and tomorrow is Nails and Dress Fitting Day!