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Day 70

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Temperature: High 45° / Low 34°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

You know life is great when pre-marital counseling confirms that you’re perfect for each other! Another excellent day on the books!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I’m still feeling great, but I wouldn’t say I’m at a 2...I’ll put my pain at a 2.5 instead...the whole bottle of champagne and tacos that we shared last night may be getting to me, but they were oh so worth it!

Workout Time & Duration?

Nope. No workout happened today.


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

Today we had our first pre-marital counseling session and it was nice. It was the first time we spoke openly about our relationships (ours and with others) and feelings with a professional and I enjoyed it. We communicate very well already and I think this is going to be a great addition to our lives together. And I’m loving our counselor - we took our time and I think we picked a winner.


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

This whole day was a Loving Black Love Moment, but I have to say again how great our session was today. It was great to open up together and Che became so much more attractive to me in that office sitting there all sexy and so comfortable talking about his feelings...Just thinking about it makes my toes tingle! I’ve heard of emotional foreplay and I think that’s what happened!

Damn, I love that man!

What am I happy for?

Hell, I may as well keep this counseling thing going on here too since I'm on a roll. I’m happy that we love and trust each other as much as we do. I’ve never trusted anyone as much as I do this man and that’s something to be happy for. We both have been through a lot...both good and bad...and we’re committed to putting in the work to become better people and improve ourselves as much as possible. I can only look forward to our continued growth together...

...and marrying him in 70 DAYS!

Oh wait, and I'm happy that we decided to watch the GGG fight tonight. I always enjoy watching sports with Che...Well, football and boxing..and college basketball during March Madness to be specific. 


What could I have done better?

Hmmm...I guess the only thing I can think of is that we could have gone to the gym today. We were pretty lazy today, but we could have done that.


What am I doing tomorrow?

Trying my best to make tomorrow better than today! And catching up with all of the March Madness because my bracket hasn’t been touched...although I do know that Che’s bracket is busted because he picked Villanova to win it all and they’re out.