74 Days - Destination Wedding Journal - Black Destination Bride

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Day 74

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Temperature: High 40° / Low 27°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

I was successful in my quest to make today better than yesterday! Therapy & PayPal money requests are actually GREAT THINGS when planning a destination wedding...Imagine that!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I’m trying not to get too excited about it, but I’ve been feeling really good lately. I think today my pain was at a 2!


Workout Time & Duration?

I’m proud of myself because I really made time to workout this morning! I got a little behind, but I still took my butt to the gym and did 15 minutes of cardio and 15 mins or core and 15 minutes of weights. It wasn’t a lot, but I’m still proud of myself...every little bit counts damn it!


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

We got our PayPal request from our final lighting vendor's deposit, so I’ll pay that tomorrow!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?

I don’t think so, but I’m getting more and more excited about the bachelorette party too! Che asked me for that countdown, and I didn’t even know the answer! It’s 38 days!  

Loving Black Love Moment?

My therapy days are very important to me and I love that about an hour after my appointment ends, Che calls me to see how it went. I love the fact that he shows great interest in the things that matter so much to me.

What am I happy for?

I’m happy that today was my therapy day! I really enjoy my meetings with my therapist, Julie and it is great to just RELEASE and get some great working advice and exercises to help me through life.


What could I have done better?

During my appointment with Julie, we discussed ways for me to make sure that I don’t overwhelm myself with life and still make efforts toward enjoying and delighting in my days because so much great stuff is happening in my life. Julie also reminded me that I should leave wiggle time in my day to peacefully account for the unaccountable.    

I’m vowing to do better at basking in the wonderfulness of my current life!


What am I doing tomorrow?

Paying the lighting people and making tomorrow better than today!