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Day 188

Sunday, November 20, 2016


Temperature: Well, here's the thing...I really don't know. That's how involved I was today. 



What Kind  of Day Did I Have & Why?

Peaceful. I woke up when I was ready, stayed in, ate nachos & leftovers today and my Steelers won. They beat the 0-10 Cleveland Browns... but a win is a win and I'll take it. That's my kind of peace! 

How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

Achy, achy, achy. I only left the house once today, and that was to walk Sparky tonight. It is too cold out there and I'm not feeling it at all. I was able to make it through with my heating pad, space heater and fluffy blanket. I'd give today about a 7. Not terrible, but I've definitely felt better. The brightest side of this is that I don't have a job to go to tomorrow... This should be interesting!


Workout Time & Duration?
Today was an off day since Iwas able to bang out my 5 days. I'll be back grinding it out tomorrow with Week 3 - Day 1: Booty Day


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

Che brought up some lighting options that he found online for our venue. He showed me a few pictures before dinner, but we didn't get to dig in too deep. We will go over them more this week, but it is great to know that lighting is on his radar. 


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?

Nope. If I didn't know anything about the weather, it is safe to say I wasn't looking for much to add to my To-Do list today. 

Loving Black Love Moment?

We had a good conversation about me not taking people's behavior so personally. I think it may be a Taurus thing, but I take things personal very often. So last night when I was upset, Che challenged me to not respond the way I did and not give anyone that type of power over me and my emotions. I've never had anyone challenge me to be a better person in the ways that he does. I mean, I'm already amazing, but just when I think I'm doing my best, he lets me know that I could do so much better. I have to love that. Imagine how great of a woman I'll be in a few years thanks to Che...That'll be something! 


What am I happy for?

The ability to have days like this. No I don't feel too hot, but I haven't always been able to unplug and THAT is something that must be acknowledged. I'm a lucky girl. 

What could I have done better?

I could have slept more. LOL


What am I doing tomorrow?

Enjoying not having a job! It has been some years since this was the case, so I'm not sure WHAT I'll do with myself. I'm kind of excited to wake up. Who am I kidding? I'm very excited to wake up in the morning!