46 Days - Destination Wedding Journal - Black Destination Bride

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Day 46

Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Temperature: High 72° / Low 58°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

I’m happy with today’s performance...Therapy Day didn’t disappoint!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

A little achy, so I’ll give it a 3. I’m gonna blame it on my awful weekend decisions - no workout & bad food messed up my 2 rating streak.

Workout Time & Duration?

My 1.5-hour evening workout was much needed! I completed 30 minutes of cardio, and weights all over, with core -- I did that!


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

My bachelorette jumpsuit fits like a glove and I’m super excited about it!

And I sent some inspiration photos to my seamstress Debbie...

I think that’s it!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

We had a touching conversation about the way our wedding has revealed and almost morphed important relationships in ways we never expected. It’s interesting how we can always relate to each other, and I know there will be times when one of us is “going through it” and the other can’t relate...but there is a real pattern of us relating to each other by going through the same things at the same time. Even our drama is in tune.

What am I happy for?

I’m happy for my new page in therapy. I went through a lot of old shit and opened up over these past weeks like I have never opened up before and

my trauma work is finished!

My next 2 appointments will be wedding prep and I’m excited as fuck for this part! Can I say, "excited as fuck" for my therapy? Yes...yes I can - and did!


What could I have done better?

I’m pretty happy with today’s performance...so I got nothin’.


What am I doing tomorrow?

Working, GymLife and making my list of outfits that I need for the wedding week and start planning! I gotta jump on this for real because I know it’s gonna take me a while…

...I’m playing too much