58 Days - Destination Wedding Journal - Black Destination Bride

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Day 58

Thursday, March 30, 2017

Temperature: High 57° / Low 45°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

These days are flying by! I checked everything off of my to-do list, but I can’t remember what I ate. I did have to stop and ask myself: Why can't people just do right? Our wedding is in 58 damn days! 

What a day!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I’m still feeling great, although I did pack my schedule to the brim and left no time for a nap - and I’m exhausted. My pain was at a 2, and my energy level was high - until I ran it all out.


Workout Time & Duration?

I was at the gym before 9 am and I loved it! The gym was empty as hell and I got on every machine and touched every free weight that I wanted - just because could! I had a super focused upper body day. I worked the hell outta my back for 30 minutes, core for 15 and ended with 15 minutes of cardio - I’m feeling it already! I might do the same thing tomorrow morning since it’ll be wedding dress fitting day!


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

Our travel agent, Sarah sent us the final costs for our room with the comps and we ended up saving a little bit more than we expected! Not much more, but hey...it all counts damn it! I made our final room payment on the payment portal and now we just have to wait for her confirmation!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

Today was a day where we were both reminded of the people who have been important to us for our whole lives but will not be at our wedding. It’s fucked up and hurts like hell -- we know that life happens, but that doesn’t make us feel any better. Tonight we just had to focus on the great things and love each other. Eating dinner and watching TV together never felt so good.

What am I happy for?

I am love, love, LOVING my interviews with all of these Destis and talking about their weddings and my own! This was SUCH a great idea! I swear I found my Desti spirit twin today and days like this make the sleepless nights worth it! I want to share more and more every day. This is what it feels like to be fulfilled and love what you do!


What could I have done better?

Taken a damn nap...When? Who the hell knows...but I should have figured it out.


What am I doing tomorrow?

Wedding dress fitting day!

Wedding dress fitting day!

I had a lot of edits for Debbie to do, so I’m looking forward to really getting to see my dress for real, for real!

And I didn’t have enough time to send the email to the resort about our beach cabanas - I gotta do that tomorrow!