63 Days - Destination Wedding Journal - Black Destination Bride

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Day 63

Saturday, March 25, 2017

Temperature: High 75° / Low 62°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

Highlight of the day? A mid-morning walk and brunch book club catch-up with my Bridefriends!


Workout Time & Duration?

I walked a trail with the girls for about 15 minutes today on the way to brunch and then I walked another 15 minutes back home, so that was my workout today. I’ll be back in the gym tomorrow.  Promise myself!

How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

I’m feeling pretty fucking great today! My pain rating is at a good 1.5 today. I broke my 2 streak in a great way today!


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

I was all about finding white outfits today and got caught up looking for my bachelorette outfit. I think i found some great options, now I just need to figure out how I want to feel on that night. And the same goes for the wedding weekend. I found dresses, jumpsuits, shorts sets - all kinds of shit. And I need to give myself a budget for all of this too -- because I know how I do!


Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?


Loving Black Love Moment?

I had a random bad attitude of a couple of hours today when I had to work instead of go over my friend’s house and I turned into a little kid and had a silent tantrum. Che tried his best to get me out of my mood and I love when he does that -- once I am able to reflect back on it and see that’s what he was trying to do. He’s sweet and at one point he asked what he could do to make me feel better. I didn’t have an answer for him, but the sentiment is sweet and appreciated.

He knows me and loves me -- and I love him too!

What am I happy for?

I’m happy that I have girlfriends that actually enjoy hanging together as much as I do. We were meeting together today to talk about our Book Club book I’m Judging You and we all had a moment where we confessed that no one actually finished the book. We all wanted to get together anyway - even though we hadn’t finished our assigned reading.

We like eachother!


What could I have done better?

I had a weird moment where I was working and trying to find time to go and hang out with my friend this evening and I just couldn’t find the time. I was conflicted between working and having fun and I didn’t take it very well. I got on my own damn nerves going back and forth between going out and staying in. I ended up staying, but it was way more difficult than it needed to be.


What am I doing tomorrow?

Enjoying Sunday and getting my ass in the gym!