64 Days - Destination Wedding Journal - Black Destination Bride

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Day 64

Friday, March 24, 2017

Temperature: High 75° / Low 40°


What Kind of Day Did I Have & Why?

A spontaneous mini-date night is a perfect way to end a week! Damn, I love Fridays!


How Do I Feel? Health/Lupie Status?

Damn, my 2 for pain is still going strong! Okay, I think it’s okay for me to get excited about it now.

Workout Time & Duration?

No workout took place today, but I did do some of a Leg Day workout so  I’m not gonna beat myself up about it. I’ll still call it a rest day - even though I already had my ONE allotted rest day for the week 3 damn days ago on Day 67….Anyway, I’m not gonna give myself no shit today. I got a lot of work done!


Destination Wedding Task Tackled:

Today I…

I….. damn I didn’t do shit wedding related today.

It JUST hit me!

Any Old Destination Wedding Tasks Making a Comeback?

Nothing new came to me so hell no nothing old is coming back

Loving Black Love Moment?

When Che was getting off work he called me and invited me to meet him in the city for dinner. I was in pajamas and nowhere near ready to leave the house, but I wouldn’t let that stop me from getting this impromptu date night poppin. 30 minutes later we were together and having a good Friday night together. He even ordered 2 spicy appetizers and burned his mouth to try something new and eat with his future wife…

That’s me! His Future Wife!!!

That beat the baked chicken wing dinner I had on the menu. AND tomorrow’s dinner is already planned now too!

What am I happy for?

I’m happy that we are almost 60 days away from our wedding! Am I ready for it?

Emotionally - YES...Physically - NO

But I know that it is all going to come together wonderfully and I’m happy that this is all happening!

It’s a fucking dream!

and...I'm happy that I couldn't eat the "bad food" that we ordered tonight...I tried, but my body was like --nope!


What could I have done better?

This is gonna sound random when I read this later, but there’s a saying that says:

"If You Stay Ready,
You Don't Have To GET Ready"

It came to mind when my man called and asked me to meet him for dinner and I was NOWHERE NEAR ready...this is NOT normal Omi and I need to do better. I don’t need to be in full-on glam mode (although I’d LOVE that) but I should get presentable in the morning. I was doing that, but then I got “busy” and that fell by the wayside...well - it’s coming back damn it!


What am I doing tomorrow?

I’m meeting the girls for book club in the morning and enjoying the good weather. It’s supposed to get to the 70’s today and I can’t let that slide by.